When it comes to having sex, it should be a two-way street. Even if an orgasm isn't achieved , as sometimes is the case, it doesn't mean that sex can't be pleasurable and extremely satisfying. I mean, that is the point after all, isn't it? Kat Van Kirk , relationship and sex expert, tells Bustle.
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Verified by Psychology Today. Save Your Sex Life. Is it a certain position or state of mind you have when being sexual? What are the keys to opening up channels of better connection, better attachment , and better intimacy with your partner? I think the answer is knowing how to have intimate sex. Think of intimacy on a continuum. On one side is your closed self, and on the other end is your open self.