We've been getting a lot of great questions about first-time sex at sexqs buzzfeed. The following pieces of advice are meant to apply to all cisgender and transgender individuals — regardless of your age, sexual orientation, or gender identity. That said, not every tip might apply to every person. Have more advice you'd like to share with the class? Go ahead and post it in the comments.
19 Things You Should Know Before You Lose Your Virginity
Honestly, virginity is just a social construct. I just used this flashy title and list to grab your attention, and now that I have it, I gots some things to say. It doesn't matter who has sex with whom, or when you have it, or even the age at which you decide to start having it. Everyone should be able to have sex with anyone they want to without judgment, so long as it is consensual. On the topic of consent, the "Me Too" movement has made it crystal clear that the world we currently live in is not safe for women. The sheer number of posts that said metoo on my newsfeed at first astounded me, but the more I thought about it, the less crazy it seemed.
Sign up or log in to share. I lost my virginity much earlier than your age : Things are very different in the world today compared to the days when I was around that age, you got to be careful of everything. My recommendation is avoid motels and public places.
Like: If there are two holes in your vagina your urethra and your vaginal canal , which hole does sex happen in? And what about all this "popping the cherry" stuff I've heard about? And WTF is a hymen?! Let's start off by answering that last question.